gay

stole this from draqiin (i hope you dont mind!) and im tired af letS DO THIS

What is your sexual orientation?
grayasexual

What is your romantic orientation?
what-demiromantic (pan af for short lol)

What is your gender?
agender!

What is your sex?
nope B)

What pronouns do you use?
they/them or he/him, i dont mind honestly ^^ all my ids are guys so yeee

How long have you been in the lgbtqa+ community for?
uhhh honestly im not sure. for certain, ive been in the community for around two years? but i never quite thought of myself as my birth gender and straight, ya feel? i never thought about it and never wanted to date anyone. sure, i got the cringey primary school crushes im sure everyone gets, but i never actually felt anything for them. its weird, but i dont think ive ever actually been straight or my birth gender, but idk man. i dont remember most of my childhood lmao

Have you ever dated anyone in the lgbtqa+ community? If yes, explain what they identify as.
hell yeah! trans pan boy my dude, and i love him <3

How did you find out about the lgbtqa+ community? 
i have no clue, it honestly just popped up in my life and i was like "cool". thats it lol

Do you have any friends in the lgbtqa+ community? 
hell yeah, most of my internet friends and a couple of my irl friends, then i have this massive group thats all cis and straight but theyre super supportive of the queer kids B)

Have you ever been at a pride event?
nope, but im dying to go to one. itd be so nice to get to know some of the local queer crew

On a scale 0-10, how confident are you with your sexuality? 
eh probably a 7 bc i can get vERY thirsty at some points and other times im like "hell no" but its equal?? idk man, im going along with grayace bc it suits me more than other ones but eeeehhhhh

On a scale 0-10 how confident are you with your gender? 
10/10 dude! im super comfortable with not aligning with being male or female, its really great honestly. if someone mistakes me as being a dude, im cool with it too bc its cool i guess?? idk im just super happy with being agender ^^

Are you out to anyone yet?
yes, my mum and my close friends. i dont think my other friends would accept me or understand, and i dont think my dad would either. it makes me anxious and im okay with my parents calling me by my birth pronouns and name, because its family. i would wanna come out to my brother and sister, but i havent gotten around to it lmao. i just wanna forget about all my other friends, when they know about my best buddy being trans and im cast off to the side. 

Do your parents know about your gender/sexuality? 
lmao my mum knows, my dad knows that i like everyone (even tho hes bi/panphobic af and its stressing), my cousin riley knows (what a sweetie <3), my cousin max knows about me being "bi" (its called being pan my dude), i think my brother knows about my gender?? he knows about me being pan af tho lol and my little sisters too young to understand. my extended family has no clue, except for rileys fam lmao

Do you ever get misgendered?
yes, a lot of the time. friends who dont know, my fam and even some of my close friends do it. im not comfortable with being misgendered by my friends and close friends (you know so why do it??) but i gotta put up with it. my fam its not so bad bc theyve grown up with me being a set name and pronouns.

Have you gotten any hate for your gender/sexuality? 
nope ^^ im super lucky honestly

In all honesty, do you think that there's a sexuality that might not be valid? 
that one where you only like someone if they like you back. its like ???? then how do you ?? im confused my dudes

Do you own any pride merch?
no, but i so want to

Do you think that there's a possibility that you might change your mind about your orientations/gender in the future?
i think so, im only a smol rn so its very possible

What are your thoughts on people that identify as cis?
it depends on who they are tbh. i dont mind what you are, as long as you dont question what i identify as, and who you are. its cool that youre cis, but its also cool that youre trans, nb, ect

What are your thoughts on people that identify as straight?
above, except sexuality-wise lol

If someone saw you on the street, would they realize that you are in the lgbtqa+ community? If yes, why?
uhhhh maybe?? i mean, i dont know what theyre thinking and i dress how i dress

On a scale 0-10 how familiar are your friends and family with the lgbtqa+ community?
friends are about a 6, im sure they dont know about being nb and all that jazz, and my family is probably a 7 bc ive projected my knowledge onto them (ive called my brother gay so many times he doesnt even deny it now omg)

This tag is almost over, did you enjoy it?
i think i did! it did nothing for my headache but it got some things off my chest <3

Do you love yourself for who you are?
im getting there my dude, but its gone up a lot in the past few years <3 im a lot happier